The fox is here!

In response to:So lonely :(

2008-11-30T02:17:37+01:00

You are most welcome. I meant what I said - your thoughts are reaching out on here and meeting others.

Yes I had a short spell in the City. Never again.

I wish you well in your search. x

In response to:So lonely :(

2008-11-29T03:37:55+01:00

Hi there. Thanks for reading and for your kind comments.

I have so much crap to unload sorry LOL>

Are you speaking from experience re: the corporate world ;)

I've worked in the City for the most part of 3 years and found it very soulless and cut-throat.

I'm focusing on breaking into other careers now! Hopefully less fast-paced!

In response to:So lonely :(

2008-11-28T21:40:42+01:00

Never alone in blogland.

People read other's posts. Understand or are baffled, sympathise or empathise, ponder, consider, smile, weep, criticise or agree.

At least your thoughts are reaching out and finding others.

Oh, and yes, the corporate world IS awful! ;)

In response to:Casual sex?

2008-02-05T18:20:24+01:00

Hi skyla :) thanks for the post - 1st time any1 has ever commented on my blog lolol. i'm new to blogging, its a good outlet. i didn't know anyone reads it he he.

i will definitely check out your cousin's book, of course i know of her sex tips for girls programme!!

i heard from the guy today via a text altho i don't see a future in us.. i want someone i can talk to not just a shag. for me sex is an emotional experience that is where men and women are so different!

yes i agree have to kiss a lot of frogs, i became single again last summer at 25, after being in a relationship for 7 years! so i feel so naive in a way, and that i am only just discovering men, and myself!

i dont hate being single all the time, just feel envious of all these loved up couples i see on the train etc, like everywhere, i think god look at the way they look at each other, why dont i have that?? its interesting to have freedom though and meeting new people is cool. you seem to learn something from each date.

so i try and count my blessings, i'm having some fun along the way, definitely won't die knowing i never experienced anything lolol.

i've just landed the job of my dreams so i think i might take some time out from the whole dating business, maybe read that book and just be on my own for a while :)

hope you are well xxx

In response to:Casual sex?

2008-02-05T17:22:33+01:00

hey hun! totally been there...dont envy you at all! i do however have a reccomendation read for you if you can get hold of it now adays...its by my cousin kate taylor...you may know her from 'sex tips for girls' on t.v? she wrote a book called 'not tonight mr. right' which is all about doing the exact opposite of everything you feel!!!!!!!! i read it, then landed me a husband!!!!! may work!
other than that...dont feel slutty or dirty...he wont be. just congratulate yourself at getting rid of another waste of time relationship that you just happened to get some love making out of at the time! process of elimination my dear watson!
you gotta kiss alot of frogs before you find your prince! dont give up or judge yourself, just do what you gotta do and keep it in the moment! that stuff happened because it felt right at the time, so dont chastise yourself now....you have just learnt another lesson is all.
p.s and dont hate being single....its a liberating time! if you take it for granted, you wont enjoy this freedom! although i love being in a relationship, you do get tied down. use this time to explore yourself and what you want to achieve in life before you settle down. see it as a positive thing. better to be alone than with someone for the sake of it xxx